Unasked-for support and unsolicited advice

Age and the quality of social experience

Jacqui Smith*, Jacqueline J. Goodnow

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    Abstract

    The present study (N = 122) examined whether older adults (M = 79 years) differed from younger age groups (Ms = 25 and 45 years) in their experience of 35 situations of unsolicited support selected from 7 content areas (e.g., health, cognition, finances, life management). Examined were reported occurrence, affective quality, interpretation, and strategies used when support was unwelcome. At all ages, unasked-for support was regarded as more unpleasant than pleasant, primarily because it implied incompetence. Unexpectedly, compared with the younger adults, older adults reported less occurrence overall (with some variations by content area) but the same level of unpleasant affect. Cognitive and social-relational factors that are age related (e.g., the use of active discounting strategies) played a role in reported occurrence and affective appraisal and may determine whether unsolicited support has positive or negative outcomes.

    Original languageEnglish
    Pages (from-to)108-121
    Number of pages14
    JournalPsychology and Aging
    Volume14
    Issue number1
    DOIs
    Publication statusPublished - Mar 1999

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